June 3 2015
My dad was not one to gladly suffer whiners. In fact, Dad was quite intolerant when it came to whining. It’s not that he wasn’t compassionate; he just didn’t have time for excuses. And that’s where today’s post comes in. I’m a whiner, dear Readers. I HATE to admit this, but, I am. Oh sure, I gripe, I grumble and I grouse. I groan, I mumble and I kvetch. But, whine…me? I think not. Ahem…I think so. Dad would not be proud.
I do not want to makes excuses, so I won’t go into detail. However, I thought I had every reason to bitch and complain, until today, right now, this very second. I was talking to my roommate about how some of our students need to realize that no matter how bad they think they have it, there is always someone who has it much worse. Or maybe I was just telling myself…anyhow, something my dad used to tell us kids popped into my head.
Mom and Dad (well, really Mom) had eight children in ten years. So, there was always some kid or another boo-hooing about some boo-boo or another. “Mom! So-and-so hit me!” “Dad, So-and-so tripped me!” “Mom!” “Dad!” You get the picture. Dad had the perfect response. Although, I don’t think I really understood what it meant until today.
When one of us would show Dad some real or imagined cut, bruise, and/or other physical slight, Dad would feign concern, look at the boo-boo and say, “Go rub some dirt on it.” This would make me laugh, but, I always walked away puzzled. The hurt no longer hurt, of course. However, the ‘Go rub some dirt on it,’ never made sense. Now, I get it.
Stop whining! Suck it up! That’s what it means. Oh, I can’t pretend to tell you what was in my dad’s mind when he said that to his kids. But I can sure tell you what is in mine. Stop whining, sissy! Suck it up and just do what you gotta do! There are things in this life that are true tragedies, my life is not one of them. I love life and life loves me back.
So, the next time I start feeling sorry for myself, the next time I begin to think, “Poor me, poor me, poor me,” I will remember the words of one of the greatest men I ever knew, “Aww, go rub some dirt on it!” Peace, ~v.